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2025-12-02

2025 Books

2025 Totals (so far): 

Number of Books: 46

Pages: 11,514

Audiobooks: 81 hours, 12 minutes

New Favorites: The Ogress and the Orphans, A Marriage at Sea, The Complete Brambly Hedge, Isola, We Solve Murders 🎧, The Impossible Fortune 🎧

Old Favorites: A Gentleman in Moscow, The Silence of the North

Favorite Vocab Words: To sit below the salt: comes from old European dining customs, especially during medieval times. It means to be of lower social status or less important in a group. In medieval dining halls, salt was a valuable commodity, and a large salt cellar was placed in the middle of the table. Important guests sat above the salt (closer to the host and the best seats), while less important guests sat below the salt, farther from the host and with less prestige. So, if someone says today that you “sit below the salt,” it’s a figurative way of saying you have lower rank or influence in a particular situation.



46. Born This Happy Morning (re-read, 2025.12.22)
By: John Bytheway
Pages: 112
Published: 2014
Genre: Religious nonfiction / Christian devotional / Christmas
Bex Rating: 9

I read this book two Christmases ago and it was such a great devotional to get me in the Christmas frame of mind.  It was just as good the second time.  I love the idea of having a "Level Three Christmas.  Level One is Santa Claus, Level Two is Silent Night, but Level Three is Christ the Risen Lord.

45. Hamnet (2025.12.18)
By: Maggie O’Farrell
Pages: 320
Published: 2020
Genre: Historical Fiction / Shakespeare / loss / love / plague
Bex Rating: 10

Oh my, this book was so good.  Trigger warning: it is about losing a child, and it was heart-wrenching.  But beautiful, and real, and relatable.  I was so moved.

  • People would say these words, to each other, Did you ever hear about the girl who lived at the edge of a forest? as they sat around the fire at night, as they kneaded dough, as they carded wool for spinning. Such stories, of course, make the night pass more quickly; soothe a fractious child, distract others from their cares. At the edge of a forest, a girl.
    There is a promise, from teller to listener, concealed in that opening, like a note tucked into a pocket, a hint that something is about to happen. Anyone in the vicinity would turn their head and prick their ears, their mind already forming a picture of the girl, perhaps picking her way through trees, or standing beside the green wall of a forest. (39)
  • She grows up feeling wrong, out of place, too dark, too tall, two unruly, two opinionated, two silent, too strange. She grows up with the awareness that she has merely tolerated, and irritant, useless, that she does not deserve love, that she will need to change herself substantially, crush herself down if she has to be married. She grows up, too, with the memory of what it meant to be properly loved, for what you are, not what you ought to be. (49)
  • Her brother does not appreciate being pressed or rushed. He is someone who must be approached sideways, with caution, as with a rest of horse. She must gently probe him and, and that way, she will likely find out more. (65)
  • How frail, to Agnes, is the veil between their world and hers. For her, the worlds are distinct from each other, rubbing up against each other, allowing passage between them. She will not let Judith cross over. (109)
  • Whatever differences Agnes and Mary have, and there are many, of course, living at such close quarters, with so much to do, so many children, so many mouths, the meals to cook and the clothes to wash and mend, the men to watch and assess, soothe and guide dissolve in the face of tasks. The two of them can gripe and prickle and rub each other up the wrong way; they can argue and bicker and sigh; they can throw into the pig-pen food the other has cooked because it is too salted or not milled finely enough or too spiced; they can raise an eyebrow at each other's darning or stitching or embroidery. In a time such as this, however, they can operate like two hands of the same person. (109)
  • There is so much to do in a family of this size, so much to see too, so many people needing so many different things. How easy is it, Agnes thinks, as she lifts the plates, to miss the pain and anguish of one person, if that person keeps quiet, if he keeps it all in, like a bottle stopper too tightly, the pressure inside building and building, until – what? (159)
  • He needs to find his mother: amazing how strong this instinct is, even now, as a great lad of 11. He recalls the sensation, this urge – just – from when he was much younger: the driving need to be with his mother, to be under her gaze, to be by her side, close enough to be able to reach out and touch her, because no one else would do.(167)
  • She now knows that it's possible, more than possible, that one of her children will die, because children do, all the time. But she will not have it. She will not. She will fill this child, these children, with life. She will place herself between them and the door leading out, and she will stand there, teeth bared, blocking the way. She will defend her three babes against all that lies beyond this world. She will not rest, not sleep, until she knows they are safe. She will push back, fight against, undo the foresight she has always had, about having two children. She will. She knows she can. (202)
  • She, like all mothers, constantly casts out her thoughts, like fishing lines, towards her children, reminding herself of where they are, what they are doing, how they fare. From habit, while she sits there near the fireplace, some part of her mind is tabulating them and their whereabouts. (220)
  • fossick: to rummage, to search
44. The Book of a Thousand Days (2025.12.10)
By: Shannon Hale
Pages: 320
Published: 2007
Genre: YA fantasy / fairy tale retelling / adventure
Bex rating: 9

I got his book at our annual Christmas book club book exchange, and it was so great!  I haven't read any Shannon Hale for a while and this book was so well done--kind of a Rapunzel story with a twist, set in Mongolia.  
  • Why can’t my lady dip her hands into the wash water and give the clothes a good scrubbing or mend a rip or make a pot of something worth eating? I’d be pleased as anything if I never had to haul a bucket of water up the cellar ladder again, but some work isn’t so bad, not when you have naught else to do but star at a candle flame or into the shivering dark. (84)
  • I’m a stubborn mare sometimes and must dangle my own carrot. (119)
  • That boy Osol who winked at me, I saw him today winking at one of the cutter girls.  I guess he’s just a boy who winks.  It doesn’t matter, not in the least.  And I’m not goin to think about him anymore. (152)
  • A bit of my mama awakened in me, a bit of the stubborn mucker soul, the stuff that keeps you alive when all the world is frozen and the food sacks empty. (168)
43. The Ogress and the Orphans (2025.12.07)
By: Kelly Barnhill
Pages: 400
Published: 2022
Genre: fantasy / middle grade / community / kindness / social commentary
Bex rating: 10

What a lovely story.  I got this book at the DI in May because I recognized the author from The Girl Who Drank the Moon, a Newbery winner a few years back.  In my opinion, this book is much better!  I loved the characters, the narration style, and the beautiful, timely story. It was just a pleasure to read.
  • In those days, townspeople lounged in the promenades and the public square, discussing literature or politics or philosophy or art. All roads in town then led to the Library, which had wide windows, tall shelves, and deep cushions on the sofas, and which welcomed everyone. There were hand-bound books and modern books and ancient scrolls, and even texts carved into stones. The librarians bustled this way and that, sorting, preserving, shelving, and shushing. Even their shushes were lovely. (6)
  • There is a power in a book that suppresses even that of a dragon. (67)
  • The reason for the kindness is never as important as the fact of the kindness. Someone was kind. We need that kindness. Therefore, we are grateful. We can choose to be filled with suspicions, or we can choose to accept grace, and then continue to extend kindness to others. Which do you choose?(91)
  • It was the game of it, the trick, his paw tingled at the very thought. For to trick another creature – to give them a version of the world that was upside down inside out and too then let it all come crashing down with delightful chaos – well, that was power indeed. Delicious power. And the dragon was hungry for it. (167)
  • They remembered that a story, in the mind of the reader, it’s like music. And discussing stories among other minds and other hearts feels like a symphony. They remembered how Adidas make their own light, and how words have their own mass and weight and being.(327)

42. If We Were Villains (2025.11.28)
By: M.L. Rio
Pages: 400
Published: 2017
Genre: fiction / thriller / mystery / campus life / drama / tragedy
Bex rating: 8.5

I couldn't put it down, but it's not one I will be freely recommending.  Lots of F-words and drinking and drugs and promiscuity. Definitely in the vein of The Secret History by Donna Tartt, which I read waaaaay back in 2004 or 2005.

But the SHAKESPEARE.  I was sucked in.  And it doesn't hurt that Allen and I have tickets to see Julius Caesar next week!

2021-11-25

Mother Goose Nursery Rhymes: Another Favorite Collection

It is a long-held ruling in Judge John Hodgman's Fake Internet Court that "the difference between a collection and a hoard is DISPLAY."

These four are my favorite.  It's hard to beat Rosemary Wells
for charm, but Gyo Fujikawa pulls it off handily. 
And that Doug Hansen version is pretty incredible.

I definitely have my Mother Goose treasuries organized and in a proper place.  Buuuuuuuuuut I wish I had room to face them all out on display--because they are fabulous.  Right now they are stacked neatly by size in a corner of the book nook . . . right under my Fisher Price Western Town.


Haha, the Western Town gets played
with a lot, but it's a bit dusty

If I ever go back to university for some post-graduate work, I would love to write a master's thesis or even a doctoral dissertation on how Mother Goose rhymes have shaped generations, and study how that has changed as newer generations are increasingly unfamiliar with the old rhymes.  I have a lot of theories and questions and ideas about these rhymes and stories.

It's ironic that there have probably never been more versions or copies or illustrations of the rhymes in the world than now. . . but their real heyday (hey-diddle-diddle-day?) was when the rhymes were passed down orally.  After all, they are meant to be sung, chanted, repeated in a sing-song rhythm.  When Mother Goose was one of only a few children's books that families owned, no wonder everyone (in the Western, English-speaking world, anyway) knew so many of the rhymes: it was a treasured possession.  Now there are so many choices for children's books (a boon, for sure) that Mother Goose has wandered (on her gander) away from the interest (or perhaps the relevance?) of the general public.

But I have good memories of nursery rhymes.  I definitely knew them, growing up, and I vaguely remember my parents or maybe my Grandma Mollie reading them to me.  You don't really have to teach nursery rhymes--they kind of distill into your permanent memory after only a few repetitions.  I think that's why they have endured so long--some for hundreds of years!
I try not to buy the cheaply made, poorly illustrated
versions, of which there are plenty

Just like I did with my Night Before Christmas collection, I made a catalog of all my Mother Goose books in a google sheet, so I can access it any time I am at a thrift store--where, sadly, most nursery rhyme books have been relegated . . . 

But wait, not sadly, because then I can find them!

It's interesting to read the nursery rhymes that aren't so "mainstream." Most people know Little Miss Muffet, but not many have heard of The Kilkenny Cats.  Many of the rhymes are pretty disturbing (Old Roger), and more than one give me pause as an adult, with an ear for double-entendre that I didn't have as a child (hello, Hickety-Pickety My Black Hen!)

I love the different illustrations just as much as the poems themselves. My favorites are always illustrations of chickens, and I especially love different depictions of  The Old Woman Who Lived in a Shoe. Here are some from my collection:  

This is UTTERLY my favorite, from Gyo Fujikawa. 
I can't even stand how charming and hilarious it is!

This is from Mother Goose in California, which is also
an alphabet book, and has THE BEST illustrations




And here are a few chicken rhymes and illustrations.  I love that nursery rhymes are often about everyday objects or themes in the lives of mothers, farmers, tradesman, peasants.  There are chickens and mice and pails of water, horseshoe nails and haystacks and visits to London, tea-time and harvest-time and bedtime.  It's a picture of life in the past, and many of the rhymes don't make sense--but it's incredible how often they still make sense--they are  constantly alluded to in our culture, even now.  

It's fun to collect, interesting to think about and study, and, ultimately, meaningful to share with children today.




2020-12-18

Focusing on Christ During Christmas

Last year, my friend Rivka invited me to a general conference study group.  Each day we read a conference talk and then shared thoughts and insights and realizations with each other.  Then she extended our study by posting a link to this article from the 2019 December Ensign: a "Christmas Devotional Advent Calendar."  Every day we studied a talk from First Presidency Christmas Devotionals, past and present.

"Heavenward" by Yongsung Kim

I have never felt closer to the Savior than I did that month--not just during Christmas--but in my life.  The article gives a short quote from each talk, but we read the entire talks for our study group.  I am going to re-study each of those Christmas devotionals this year. I want to make this post a permanent place where I can link to those talks, and use it as a model for study in years to come.    

Advent means "the arrival of a notable person, thing, or event." I can't think of a better way to prepare for my Savior's arrival: whether it is His Christmas birth, His second coming, or His spirit in my heart and His love in my life.

  1.  "Christmas is Love," President Thomas S. Monson.  Christmas Devotional 2012
  2. "Fear Not," L. Whitney Clayton.  Christmas Devotional 2015
  3. "The Generous One," Dieter F. Uchtdorf.  Christmas Devotional 2015
  4. "Questions and Answers," M. Russell Ballard.   BYU Devotional, 2017
  5. "The Real Christmas," President Howard W. Hunter.  Ensign, December 2015
  6. "Christmas--A Season to Love, Serve, and Forgive One Another," Christina B. Franco.  Christmas Devotional 2017
  7. "The Light and the Life of the World," David A. Bednar. Christmas Devotional 2015
  8. "Oh Come Let Us Adore Him--And the Plan," Linda K. Burton. Christmas Devotional 2015
  9. "What Happened Next?" Rosemary M. Wixom. Christmas Devotional 2013
  10. "The Son of God," President Gordon B. Hinckley.  Ensign, December 1992.
  11. "Prophetic Announcements of Christ's Birth," Dallin H. Oaks.  Christmas Devotional 2016
  12. "The Christmas Story is a Family Story," Richard J. Maynes.  Christmas Devotional 2014
  13. "Personal Peace: The Reward of the Righteous," Quentin L. Cook.  Christmas Devotional 2013
  14. "Silent Night, Love's Pure Light," Sahron Eubank.  Christmas Devotional 2018
  15. "The Reality of Christmas," Gary E. Stephenson. Ensign, December 2014
  16. "Glory to God," Ronald Rasband. Christmas Devotional 2013
  17. "Christmas Within You," Jeffrey R. Holland.  Ensign, December 2012
  18. "The Peace and Joy of Knowing the Savior Lives," Russell M. Nelson. Ensign, December 2011
  19. "Gifts of Peace," Henry B. Eyring.  Christmas Devotional 2016
  20. "Heavenly Gifts," Kevin R. Duncan.  Christmas Devotional 2017
  21. "The Fullness of the Story of Christmas," Craig C. Christensen. Christmas Devotional 2016
  22. "Be At Peace," D. Todd Christofferson. Ensign December 2015
  23. "The Gift of the Holy Ghost," Douglas D. Holmes. Christmas Devotional 2016
  24. "Christmas is Christ-like Love," Bonnie L. Oscarson.  Christmas Devotional 2014